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Heart-Centered Rituals : Honouring Love in All Forms

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February has a way of shining a spotlight on love.

Shop windows turn pink and red. Supermarket aisles fill with roses and chocolates. Social media becomes a collage of candlelit dinners and grand gestures. And while there’s nothing wrong with celebrating romance, this time of year can quietly bring pressure — especially if your life doesn’t fit the postcard version of Valentine’s Day.

But love is far bigger than one day.
And far wider than one relationship.

February, sitting gently at the edge of winter, is actually a beautiful time to turn inward and honour love in all its forms — self-love, friendship, community, compassion, and even the quiet love we hold for the earth beneath our feet.

This month, instead of asking “Who is loving me?”
Try asking, “Where is love already present in my life?”

Returning to the Heart

In energy traditions, the heart centre is associated with compassion, connection, balance, and openness. It’s the space where giving and receiving meet.

Winter can sometimes make us feel closed — physically hunched against the cold, emotionally retreating in darker days. February offers a gentle invitation to soften again.

You don’t need dramatic rituals. Just small, intentional pauses that reconnect you to warmth.

A Simple Heart-Opening Ritual

Choose a quiet evening. Light a candle. Wrap yourself in a blanket. Place one hand over your heart.

Take a few slow breaths and simply notice:

  • How does your heart feel today?
  • Is there tenderness there?
  • Is there tightness?
  • Is there gratitude?

Whisper inwardly:
I honour the love that lives within me.

Stay for a few minutes. Let it be simple.

Honouring Self-Love

Self-love doesn’t have to mean bubble baths and affirmations (though it can). Sometimes self-love looks like:

  • Saying no when you’re tired
  • Logging off early
  • Cooking yourself something nourishing
  • Booking the appointment you’ve been putting off
  • Letting yourself rest without guilt

Consider one small act of devotion toward yourself each week. Not to improve yourself. Just to care for yourself.

That is enough.

Celebrating Friendship

Romantic love often takes centre stage this month, but friendship is one of the most sacred forms of love we have.

Reach out to a friend just because.
Send a message of appreciation.
Share tea.
Take a rainy walk together.

Loving the Earth in Winter

Even in February, the earth is quietly preparing for renewal. Buds are forming unseen. Roots are strengthening below the surface.

Take a mindful walk and notice:

  • The softness of moss
  • The pattern of bare branches
  • The quiet resilience of winter light

Place your hand on a tree. Thank the earth. Let love expand beyond human relationships.

As winter slowly begins to loosen its grip, February offers us a threshold moment — a space between darkness and the first hints of spring.

It’s a beautiful time to tend the heart gently.

Not with pressure.
Not with expectation.
But with warmth.

Honour love in all its forms — the love you give, the love you receive, the love you are still learning to hold.

Listening to the Rain: Nature’s Healing Sound Bath

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Another post about the rain – because let’s face it, there has been a lot of it recently and there’s no sign of it stopping any time soon…

There’s something quietly magical about rain. Its steady rhythm, the gentle patter against windows, the soft swish of puddles underfoot — it’s a sound that invites stillness, reflection, and deep presence. In the busy, noisy pace of life, rain reminds us that nature itself is a healer, offering its own frequencies to soothe the mind, body, and spirit.

Winter in the UK can feel heavy — short days, endless drizzle, and the kind of quiet that sometimes feels like being trapped indoors. But the rain is not just weather, it’s a natural sound bath, a symphony of subtle vibrations that can calm, balance and restore.

I personally love nothing more than being curled up in bed, listening to the rain on the sky light windows,

The Healing Frequencies of Water

Water has a unique way of resonating with us. Its sound carries frequencies that naturally influence our nervous system, encouraging relaxation and presence. Think of it as the earth’s own gentle energy medicine.

  • The steady rhythm of rainfall can slow the breath and quiet the mind.
  • The varying textures of drops — soft mist, tapping rooftops, splashing puddles — create a subtle meditation for the senses.
  • Flowing water, streams, and rivers carry a continuous hum that many traditions associate with life force energy.

Across cultures, humans have always recognised water as sacred. From river chants in India, to temple water rituals in Japan, to European folk rain ceremonies, water’s sound has been used to restore energy, cleanse, and harmonise. Listening deeply to water is, in essence, listening to life itself.

Rain as a Natural Sound Bath

A sound bath is not just bowls, chimes, or frequencies — it can be found in the world around us. Rain becomes a natural, ever-present instrument:

  • Close your eyes and tune into the layers of sound — the distant drizzle, the heavy drops, the gentle trickle along gutters.
  • Notice how your body responds — does your chest soften? Your jaw unclench? Your shoulders drop?
  • Let your mind follow the rhythm without controlling it. Each drop is a note, a tiny vibration that moves through you.

This practice is not about achieving anything. It’s about receiving, letting the rain’s frequencies support your nervous system and open space for rest.

How to Bring the Rain Sound Bath Indoors

If the weather is too harsh, you can still enjoy water’s healing frequencies at home:

  • Play recordings of rainfall or flowing streams while you rest or meditate.
  • Use a rain stick to mimic the layers and richness of natural water sounds.
  • Close your eyes and visualise the rain washing over you, clearing stagnant energy and inviting calm.

Even five minutes of mindful listening can leave you feeling lighter, calmer and more connected to yourself.

When we slow down to listen — to the patter, the rhythm, the frequencies — we tap into a natural, gentle energy medicine. This is the essence of sound alchemy: noticing the vibrations all around you and letting them support your well-being, quietly and deeply.

So next time the sky darkens and the drizzle begins, pause. Listen. Breathe. Let the rain wash over your energy and invite stillness.

Moon Phases & Manifestation: Working With the Lunar Cycle

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The moon has guided humans for thousands of years — shaping tides, crops, rituals and inner rhythms. Long before manifestation became a buzzword, people understood that the moon reflects cycles of growth, rest, release, and renewal.

Manifestation, when viewed through a lunar lens, isn’t about forcing outcomes. It’s about listening, aligning, and moving in rhythm with natural cycles — including your own.

The moon reminds us that nothing is meant to be constant. Not energy. Not motivation. Not clarity. And that’s where its real magic lies.

Manifestation as a Cycle, Not a Command

Modern manifestation culture often focuses on the end result — what you want to call in. Lunar manifestation invites something gentler: presence at every stage of becoming.

Each moon phase holds a different quality of energy. When you work with these phases, manifestation becomes less about control and more about cooperation.

🌑 New Moon — Intention & Possibility

The new moon is a time of darkness and quiet. Nothing is visible yet, and that’s the point.

This phase supports:

  • planting seeds
  • setting gentle intentions
  • listening inward

Rather than asking “What do I want?”, try asking:

  • What feels ready to grow?
  • What am I being invited into?

New Moon practice:
Light a candle, take a few deep breaths, and write 1–3 intentions that feel nourishing rather than demanding. Let them be spacious. Let them breathe.

🌒 Waxing Moon — Nurture & Momentum

As the moon begins to grow, so does energy. This is a phase of gentle action and support.

This phase supports:

  • taking small aligned steps
  • building momentum
  • trusting the process

Think of this as tending the soil, not forcing the plant.

Waxing Moon practice:
Ask yourself, What one small action supports my intention this week?
Then do only that.

🌕 Full Moon — Illumination & Release

The full moon is often associated with heightened emotion and clarity. It illuminates what’s working — and what isn’t.

This phase supports:

  • release
  • emotional awareness
  • truth and reflection

Manifestation here isn’t about adding more — it’s about letting go.

Full Moon practice:
Journal on what feels heavy, outdated, or misaligned. You can release through writing, and if it feels right, tear it out and burn safely. There is no right way.

🌘 Waning Moon — Rest & Integration

As the moon begins to fade, energy turns inward again. This phase is often overlooked but it’s essential.

This phase supports:

  • rest and recovery
  • integration
  • reflection without judgement

Growth doesn’t happen only in motion — it happens in rest.

Waning Moon practice:
Slow your pace. Clear your space. Let yourself be quieter. Trust that nothing is being lost.

Manifestation Without Pressure

You don’t need to work with every moon.
You don’t need perfect rituals.
You don’t need to manifest constantly.

The moon teaches us that being receptive is just as powerful as being intentional.

Some months you may feel deeply connected to the lunar cycle. Other months, you may simply notice the moon in the sky and feel something soften. Both are enough.

A Gentle Reminder

Manifestation isn’t about bending the universe to your will.
It’s about remembering that you are already part of its rhythm.

When you work with the moon, you’re not asking for magic —
you’re allowing it

The Subtle Magic of Energy Healing

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Energy healing often feels like something modern, niche or mystical — but in truth, it’s ancient. Long before we had clinical language or scientific instruments, human beings understood that life itself moves through us as energy. Different cultures gave it different names, but the understanding was the same: there is an invisible current that animates the body, mind and spirit.

Energy healing isn’t about belief or special powers. It’s about remembering something humanity has always known.

A Shared Ancient Understanding

Across ancient civilisations, there was a quiet agreement: life force flows through everything.

  • In Japan, it’s known as Ki — the vital energy that Reiki works with.
  • In China, it’s called Chi (Qi) — the life force that flows through meridians in Traditional Chinese Medicine.
  • In India, it’s Prana — the breath of life carried through the chakras and the breath.
  • In Ancient Egypt, it was known as Ka or Ba — aspects of the soul and life essence that continued beyond the physical body.
  • In Ancient Greece, Pneuma referred to the vital spirit or breath that animated life.

Different words. Different systems.
The same felt truth.

Every one of these traditions understood that when energy flows freely, we experience balance, vitality, and ease — and when it becomes blocked or depleted, discomfort and disconnection can arise.

Energy Healing as Remembering

Practices like Reiki, Sekhem, sound healing, breathwork, and touch-based therapies didn’t appear out of nowhere. They grew from this shared ancestral knowing.

Reiki, for example, works with Ki — universal life force energy — not something personal or forced, but something intelligent and already present. Sekhem, with roots in Egyptian temple healing, works with a higher vibrational form of life force, often described as deeply heart-led and expansive.

What unites all of these practices is not technique, but intention:

  • to support balance
  • to invite harmony
  • to remind the body how to rest and realign

Energy healing doesn’t do something to you.
It creates the conditions for your system to remember itself.

The Subtlety Is the Magic

Energy healing is rarely dramatic. It doesn’t need to be.

Often, it shows up as:

  • a softening of the breath
  • a feeling of warmth or heaviness
  • a quiet sense of safety
  • a deep, unfamiliar calm

Sometimes it’s barely noticeable in the moment, but lingers afterwards — a little more space inside the body, a little more clarity, a little more ease.

This subtlety is not weakness.
It’s intelligence.

Just as the seasons change gradually, energy shifts gently, layer by layer.

You Don’t Need to “Believe” to Receive

One of the most beautiful things about energy healing is that it doesn’t ask anything from you.

You don’t need to:

  • understand chakras
  • visualise perfectly
  • believe in anything specific

Your body already knows how to respond to rest, care, and gentle attention.

Energy healing simply offers a pause, a moment where the nervous system can settle and the body can exhale.

A Quiet Thread Through Time

When you receive or explore energy healing, you’re not engaging in something new or separate. You’re stepping into a long, human lineage — one that stretches across continents and centuries.

From temples and medicine huts to quiet modern rooms, the intention has always been the same: to support wholeness, balance and connection.

That is the subtle magic of energy healing.
Soft. Ancient. Still quietly working — just as it always has

Rainy Day Rituals: Mindfulness & Self-Care for February

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It’s been non-stop rain here in the UK lately, hasn’t it? All grey skies, damp air and endless drizzle? Maybe I’m feeling it more-so since I moved to the North-East but the feeling of being a trapped indoors can start to weigh on the spirit. But what if, instead of resisting this season, we leaned into it? What if the rain, the quiet, and the cocooning of winter could become a gentle invitation to pause, to breathe, and to reconnect with ourselves?

Winter is naturally a season of reflection and stillness. It’s a time for slowing down, tending to your inner life, and noticing the small, often-overlooked joys around you. Here’s how to embrace the rainy season and turn your home into a cosy sanctuary for mindfulness and presence.

Create Your February Sanctuary

Your home can be more than a shelter from the storm — it can be a sacred space that nourishes your mind, body, and soul. Here are some gentle ways to transform your space:

  • Soft Lighting: Switch harsh overhead lights for candles, fairy lights, or warm lamps. The flicker of light in the rainy season feels grounding and calming.
  • Textured Comfort: Layer throws, cushions and soft rugs to create cosy corners where you can curl up with a book and a cup of tea.
  • Scent & Aroma: Use essential oils like lavender, cedarwood or sweet orange to create an aromatic cocoon. Diffusers or simple cotton pads infused with oils can transform your space instantly.
  • Natural Elements: Bring the outside in — a branch from a walk, a small pot of winter greenery or even a bowl of smooth stones can remind you of the rhythm of nature.

Practicing Winter Mindfulness

Mindfulness isn’t about forcing calm; it’s about noticing what’s already here. Even the rain can become a meditation if we allow ourselves to see it with fresh eyes.

  • Notice Small Joys: A steaming mug of tea, the scent of damp earth, the quiet rhythm of raindrops on your window. These small moments anchor us in the present.
  • Grounding Meditation: Sit or lie comfortably. Close your eyes and take deep breaths, imagining roots growing from your feet into the earth. Feel the stability beneath you, the solid presence that the rainy season is offering.
  • Gentle Movement: Stretch or sway to your breath. Feel the body waking gently, each movement a little prayer of presence. Even five minutes can shift your energy.
  • Sensory Awareness: Listen to the rain, notice the texture of your blanket, or the warmth of a cup in your hands. Engage fully with the senses — this is your body’s way of returning to now.

Embrace the Rainy Season

The rain doesn’t need to be an obstacle. You can open a window, feel the cool mist on your skin, and let it remind you of life’s rhythms — the ebb and flow, the pause before growth. Winter teaches patience, reflection, and rest. By creating your sanctuary and embracing mindfulness, you transform what could feel like confinement into a season of inner richness.

  • Take a slow walk with a waterproof coat, noticing the sounds, smells, and textures of winter.
  • Brew herbal tea and sit with it in stillness, letting your mind rest between sips.
  • Light a candle each evening and dedicate a moment to yourself — no screens, no distractions, just presence.

Winter is often misunderstood as a time to endure. But in truth, it is a sacred pause — a chance to realign with yourself, notice the subtle beauty in small things and nurture your body, mind and soul. Let the rain wash over the stress and hurry of everyday life and allow the quiet days to become a gentle invitation to mindfulness.

Your February sanctuary is waiting. Step inside, breathe deeply and let stillness become your companion.

“The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain.” — Dolly Parton

The Heart Chakra: Healing, Balance & the Energy of Love

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The heart chakra, known as Anahata, sits at the centre of the chakra system and acts as a powerful bridge between the lower, physical chakras and the higher, spiritual ones. It governs our ability to love — not only others, but ourselves — and shapes how we experience compassion, connection, forgiveness and emotional balance.

When the heart chakra is open and balanced, we feel emotionally secure, connected and able to give and receive love freely. When it is blocked or imbalanced, we may struggle with relationships, boundaries, grief or self-worth.

Understanding the Heart Chakra

  • Location: Centre of the chest
  • Colour: Green (also pink)
  • Element: Air
  • Associated organs: Heart, lungs, thymus, circulatory system
  • Emotional themes: Love, compassion, trust, forgiveness, empathy, connection

Anahata translates to “unstruck” or “unhurt”, symbolising a place within us that remains whole and untouched by pain, even after life’s challenges. This chakra invites us to return to that space of openness and unconditional love.

Signs of a Balanced Heart Chakra

When the heart chakra is in harmony, you may experience:

  • Healthy, loving relationships
  • Emotional balance and inner peace
  • Compassion for yourself and others
  • Strong boundaries without guilt
  • A sense of belonging and connection

You are able to love openly while remaining grounded in self-respect and emotional safety.

Signs of a Blocked or Imbalanced Heart Chakra

An imbalanced heart chakra can show up in many ways, including:

  • Difficulty trusting or opening up
  • Fear of intimacy or vulnerability
  • Holding onto past grief, heartbreak, or resentment
  • People-pleasing or over-giving
  • Low self-worth or emotional numbness

Physically, it may manifest as tension in the chest, shallow breathing, or heart and lung-related discomfort.

Emotional Healing & the Heart Chakra

The heart chakra holds our emotional history — love, loss, joy, grief and everything in between. Healing this chakra often requires gentleness, patience and self-compassion.

Heart healing is not about erasing pain, but about allowing emotions to move through us rather than becoming stored in the body. Practices such as reiki, sound healing, breathwork, and meditation can be deeply supportive in releasing old emotional patterns and restoring energetic flow.

Crystals for the Heart Chakra

Crystals can help support heart chakra healing by gently influencing the emotional and energetic body. Some powerful heart chakra stones include:

  • Rose Quartz – Unconditional love and self-compassion
  • Rhodonite – Healing emotional wounds and forgiveness
  • Amazonite – Emotional balance and heart-led truth
  • Malachite – Deep emotional transformation
  • Green Aventurine – Emotional renewal and optimism

Working with crystals during meditation, energy healing sessions, or daily self-care rituals can help bring awareness and softness to the heart space.

Sound Healing & the Heart Chakra

The heart chakra resonates with the note F and responds beautifully to sound healing. Instruments such as crystal singing bowls, gongs, chimes, and the human voice can help dissolve energetic blocks and encourage emotional release.

Sound healing works by calming the nervous system and allowing stored emotions to surface and release naturally, supporting both emotional and physical heart health.

The Heart Chakra & Self-Love

Self-love is the foundation of heart chakra balance. It’s not about perfection or constant positivity — it’s about meeting yourself with kindness, honesty and acceptance.

Heart-centred self-love includes:

  • Setting healthy boundaries
  • Honouring your emotions
  • Releasing self-judgement
  • Allowing rest and nourishment

The more compassion you offer yourself, the more naturally love flows outward.

Opening the Heart Chakra Gently

Healing the heart is a journey, not a destination. The heart chakra opens gradually, layer by layer, as we learn to feel safe in love again — with ourselves and with others.

Gentle practices such as yoga, meditation, reiki, sound baths, journaling and working with heart chakra crystals can all support this process. Trust that your heart opens in its own time and wisdom.

The heart chakra reminds us that love is not something we need to earn — it is our natural state. When we reconnect with the energy of Anahata, we begin to live from a place of compassion, balance and emotional truth.

May you honour your heart, listen to its wisdom and allow love to flow freely — within and beyond you.

Crystals for Self-Love

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Self-love isn’t about perfection or constant positivity — it’s about compassion, boundaries, forgiveness and learning to come home to yourself. Crystals can be beautiful allies on this journey, helping us soften, heal, and reconnect with our worth on an energetic level.

Below are some powerful heart-centred crystals that support self-love, emotional healing, and inner balance.

Rose Quartz – The Stone of Unconditional Love

Rose quartz is the ultimate stone of love and compassion. It gently encourages self-love and deepens our ability to both give and receive love. Working directly with the heart chakra, it opens the heart to unconditional love — for yourself, others and the world around you.

This nurturing crystal also helps to purify emotional wounds, restore trust, and bring harmony to the heart, making it a beautiful ally for emotional healing and self-acceptance.

It helps:

  • Release self-criticism and negative self-talk
  • Heal past emotional pain
  • Invite gentleness, compassion, and forgiveness

Use rose quartz during meditation, keep it by your bed, or place it over your heart to remind yourself that you are worthy of love exactly as you are.

Red Jasper – Grounded Self-Worth & Strength

Red jasper is deeply connected to the Root Chakra, supporting grounding, stability and a strong sense of safety within the body. It helps build self-love and self-confidence at a foundational level, encouraging you to feel secure, supported and empowered in who you are.

This earthy stone reminds us that true self-love begins with feeling rooted, balanced and at home within ourselves.

It helps:

  • Build inner strength and courage
  • Support healthy boundaries
  • Anchor self-love into everyday actions

Red jasper reminds you that loving yourself also means feeling safe, supported, and rooted in your body.

Moonstone – Emotional Balance & Self-Compassion

Moonstone is deeply connected to the energy of the Moon and the intuitive self. It gently soothes stress and emotional instability, helping to calm the mind and soften overwhelming emotions.

This nurturing stone offers deep emotional healing, encouraging balance, self-compassion and trust in your inner wisdom as you move through life’s natural cycles.

It helps:

  • Soothe emotional overwhelm
  • Support intuition and self-trust
  • Encourage patience and self-acceptance

Moonstone is perfect if your self-love journey includes healing emotional sensitivity or reconnecting with your inner feminine energy.

Rhodonite – Healing Old Wounds

Rhodonite encourages forgiveness — of others and most importantly, of yourself — while supporting emotional honesty and heart-centred truth. It gently heals past wounds and helps release old pain that may be blocking self-love.

This compassionate stone also assists in the discovery of your true passions, helping you reconnect with what lights you up from the inside out.

It helps:

  • Heal emotional scars
  • Release resentment and self-blame
  • Encourage forgiveness and compassion

Rhodonite gently supports the heart while helping you move forward without carrying old pain.

Amazonite – Speaking Your Truth with Love

Amazonite is connected to the Heart Chakra, supporting emotional balance and gentle healing of the heart. It helps to balance moods and dissolve sadness, bringing a sense of calm, hope and reassurance.

This soothing stone also assists in manifesting universal love, encouraging compassion, harmony and a deeper connection to love in all its forms.

It helps:

  • Release people-pleasing patterns
  • Encourage healthy communication
  • Support self-respect and authenticity

Amazonite reminds you that your voice matters and that honouring your truth is an act of self-love.

Malachite – Deep Transformation & Empowerment

Malachite is a deeply transformative stone known for absorbing negative energy and bringing hidden emotions to the surface. It helps eliminate destructive thought patterns and behaviours, supporting awareness, growth and emotional responsibility.

This potent crystal encourages empowered self-love — the kind that invites change, healing and conscious transformation.

It helps:

  • Expose self-sabotaging patterns
  • Encourage emotional responsibility
  • Empower deep personal growth

Malachite supports radical self-love — the kind that says “I choose growth, even when it’s uncomfortable.”

Working with Crystals for Self-Love ✨

You might choose one crystal that resonates with where you are right now, or create a small self-love crystal set.

Try:

  • Meditating with them
  • Holding them during journaling
  • Using them in self-care rituals

Most importantly, remember: crystals don’t create self-love — they support your intention to treat yourself with kindness, patience and respect.

Self-love is a practice, not a destination. Be gentle with yourself along the way.

Eden Perfumes

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Perfume, from the French Parfum, a mixture of fragrant essential oils or aroma compounds used to give the human body an appealing scent.

Expensive, opulent and luxurious be they floral, musky, woody, fruity or aquatic, men and women have been wearing perfumes for thousands of years.

But did you know that most of perfumes contain some really icky animal ingredients?

Ambergris – a wax-like  growth which is found in the stomach and intestines of about one in a hundred sperm whales. The finest ambergris has a lovely, sweet, musky odor. 

Musk – found in a small pouch, in front of the penis of a mature male musk deer. Apparently it possesses a sweet, generous, aromatic intensity bringing an elegance and a radiance to any perfume composition.

Civet – a buttery-yellow paste secreted by the perineal glands of both male and female civets which is said to have a radiant, velvety, floral scent . . .

Castoreum – Is used to produce a spicy ‘leather’ scent and is a thick paste found in the castor sacs between the pelvis and the base of the tail  of both the male and female beaver.

Hyraceum – also called ‘Africa stone’ is the petrified rock like excrement of the rock hyrax, it’s one animal scent that can be harvested without actually causing any harm to the animal but why oh why would anybody want perfume made from any animals excrement, no matter how ethically it might have been obtained?

Well, I definitely don’t want to be lathering my body in any of those, that’s for sure!

Luckily, I stumbled across an amazing vegan and cruelty free perfume brand last year whilst browsing the lanes of Brighton called Eden perfumes.

Eden Perfumes have hundreds of scents lines up in bottles on their walls that almost perfectly match that of many well known designer fragrances but without any of the cruelty, no animal ingredients, no animal testing and mostly organic, what’s not to love.

I have 3 myself, copies of Chanel No5, Dior’s Poison and Thierry Mugler’s Angel and you really would struggle to tell the difference between the Eden perfumes and the real designer scents.

Not only that but at only £18 for a 30ml bottle if you buy in store of £24 for the luxury lines, you’re saving a fortune!

Cruelty free cost’s less!

Shop online at www.edenperfumes.co.uk

Or head to:

Original Brighton Branch

26 Gardner Street Brighton BN11UP

New London Branch

203 Portobello Road London W111LU